Many of you are looking for a specific letter for ideas to help you write to someone you love. You are welcome to take what you need from this site for your personal use. But here’s the deal. You can do it yourself. Go to the top of the main blog page or click here […]
Family Secrets
October 8, 2019 by Leave a Comment
I don’t believe in family secrets. They cause undue stress, give nasty surprises and keep us from learning lessons that we could all share. Yet it’s difficult to know how deal with when they are brought into the light. Do they require action? Are we to be involved? If there are differences, are we to […]
To My Valentine
February 14, 2018 by 2 Comments
To My Valentine, I have so many valentines now. But as I am thinking about my children and my grandchildren, my mind turns to you. You are the one, after all. You are the one who has always loved me. All of those years ago I didn’t understand how such a stud decided to pay […]
…on Christmas and You
December 25, 2017 by Leave a Comment
(NOTE: Do you want to write to your new love? Your aging husband? Your child? Your Friend? I hope this helps you find the words you need for the person you love. This is one of a series of requested letters posted under “Form Letters” for those of you who would like an idea or […]
…on Being a Stepparent
June 12, 2017 by Leave a Comment
NOTE. This is one of a series of requested letters that is posted under “Form Letters” for those of you who would like an idea or a template for a letter of your own. Dear Son-to-Be: I’ve thought a lot about your upcoming marriage into our family. I know that it isn’t my responsibility to […]
…on Wanting Us to Be Together
June 10, 2017 by 4 Comments
(NOTE. This is one of a series of requested letters that was written in 2012. Perhaps it will help you communicate your love.) I don’t like that you are so far away. This is a moment I want to share with you. Of course, I always want us to be walking and talking together. When […]
You are enough!
April 5, 2016 by 3 Comments
I am re-posting this as a form letter. Perhaps it will help you write your your child or grandchild. To what standard do you hold yourself? Who is the paragon to whom you compare yourself? You do not disappoint! You are a person of soul and virtue. You may have lived through things or done […]
Happy 21
January 8, 2016 by Leave a Comment
This is a post brought forward from the past because so many of you are looking for those birthday letters. Dear Granddaughter, The Facebook posts and emails are flying. It is a celebration of you. Our son can’t believe he is the father of a 21-year-old. Your mother is remembering driving you home from the […]
Loving…no matter what…
December 24, 2015 by 19 Comments
I sometimes bring this letter forward from my archives because there seem to be a lot of people searching for letters to write to their own children. Dear Children, I am think of unconditional love today. Of what it really means. I love you. Without qualifying conditions. You needn’t earn my love. It is a […]
What I Want for Christmas
December 22, 2015 by Leave a Comment
Another friend has lost her child. I am sharing some of what I feel of her pain so that you will, perhaps, read this and take a chance on life. Dear Suffering Person, You are my Christmas wish. I want you – alive and well and warm, holding your children or standing in the embrace […]
